Let It Go

“It’s over.” “We’re done.” “I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you.” These phrases have ended countless relationships, and in my counseling office, I regularly see couples who are on the brink of uttering those...

Bring Me a Higher Love

Folks familiar with Twelve-Step Programs like Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous and Overeaters Anonymous are well-versed with the concept and importance of a Higher Power. In recovery, people understand the crucial need for a strong and committed relationship...

THAT Moment in Time

SWEET MEMORIES Recall a favorite memory, a moment in time that you wish you could relive again in exactly the same way. Maybe it was the birth of your child, or your first step down the wedding aisle. Perhaps it was hearing your beloved say “I love you,”...

The Silent Treatment

Silence. Quiet. Calm. Those words are a distant memory to most busy adults I know, whose days are a blur of work meetings, waiting in the school pick-up lane, chores at home and, if they’re lucky, a few precious, uninterrupted moments spent with friends and...

(Mis)Adventures in Nature

We couldn’t be sure what was twisted in a “figure 8” in the middle of that Carolina dirt road. Was it a torn and rotting piece of rubber? Was it a strip of fabric that had blown into the path of our rental car? Was it . . . A SNAKE?!? My eagle-eyed...