by Arbor | Jun 20, 2014 | Uncategorized
Report cards arrived in the mail today. And while my son’s final grades were acceptable according to our family’s standards, I couldn’t avoid focusing on the “D” and “F” he received on two final exams. Those letters seemed to...
by Arbor | Jun 11, 2014 | Uncategorized
I was shocked and saddened by my reaction to news of yet another school shooting. Before outrage, grief or compassion for those who lost their lives or someone they loved, I felt a moment of hopeless, powerless RESIGNATION. When did I become anything less than...
by Arbor | Jun 6, 2014 | Uncategorized
“I do not trust people who don’t love themselves and yet tell me ‘I love you.’ There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” Our practice manager posted this quote from Maya Angelou in our lobby,...
by Arbor | May 29, 2014 | Uncategorized
“It’s over.” “We’re done.” “I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you.” These phrases have ended countless relationships, and in my counseling office, I regularly see couples who are on the brink of uttering those...
by Arbor | May 21, 2014 | Uncategorized
Folks familiar with Twelve-Step Programs like Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous and Overeaters Anonymous are well-versed with the concept and importance of a Higher Power. In recovery, people understand the crucial need for a strong and committed relationship...